So you’re a brand new kindy mum – exciting! You’re probably feeling a mixture of elation, nerves and trepidation about what lies ahead for both you and your child, especially on the first couple of days this week.  Big school is a big deal for little people and the impact it has on everyone in the family is HUGE! Here are a few things to anticipate over the coming weeks.

A serious case of ‘Kindytude’

BAM! From the moment you pick them up you can expect some major back chat and general feralness. They’ve been on their best behavior for 6 hours or more if they’re in before/after school care – they’re learning so much, conforming to new rules and meeting lots of new friends which requires lots of holding their s&it together! And they’re tired! School is exhausting for little brains.

Apparently it’s very normal and common that they take out any built up emotions on the people they feel most comfortable with and that would be YOU! Even on the days you think you’ve nailed it by bringing them a donut for afternoon tea they’ll lose their mind because it is the wrong coloured icing. Buckle up for a few rough weeks – we promise it does improve!

Nits

We hate to say it but there’s a 99% chance that you will receive a letter home in the first term about these critters and your child may even get them – ours did! It’s the four letter work that strikes fear into even the most seasoned of school mums but it’s par for the course unfortunately! You can read more about our first time dealing with it here!

Academic ‘competition’

There’s likely to be a kindy kid already reading novels and another with handwriting like your grandmother’s. Don’t stress about it – give your kid time to find their groove as they all progress at a different pace and are ‘better’ at certain things than others. It is what it is. There are some seriously bright kids out there and there are some seriously coached kids out there too. Run your own race and try as hard as you can to focus on your own child’s development. The majority of teachers are brilliant and skilfully work with all levels and children. But if you have a legitimate concern about your child, definitely speak with them.

The bathroom

It’s possible they may have some sort of toilet accident, even if they haven’t had one in years. Don’t worry, they won’t get teased, it seems it’s quite normal in kindy as they learn to hold on or follow the procedure of putting their hand up to ask to go to the bathroom. You may like to put a spare pair of knickers in a pocket of their bag and explain that it’s just in case of a little accident. Teachers are great at handling all of this though.

The path to reading

Learning to read is hard and you’re a huge part of this journey. Before our kids started school we’d heard lots of times “Don’t worry, they’ll learn that at school.” This is true to an extent but it doesn’t mean that there’s not work to be done at home to help your child on this journey. Sure, most kindy kids don’t have homework or it starts a little later in the year. However they do take home ‘readers’ (books designed to help them learn to read) and there’s an expectation that parents help them read these each night, or morning if that works better for you and your child.

There are also ‘sight words’ that come on different coloured cards as they progress through them all. These 100 or so words are basically the foundation of reading, the most common words they just need to know and there’s no way around this really. Your child will need to know the words on each card before progressing to the next colour. Your child’s teacher may have some suggestions of ways to mix things up when learning these. Each child is different so you just have to find out what works for yours. You could play bingo or memory with them for example. But let’s face it, this kind of thing on certain days is just a huge chore and a form of parental torture when you’ve looked at the word ‘that’ for the hundredth time and they stare blankly at you!

Losing time

You will likely become busier that you were before. Seems impossible right?? You now have a full 5 days up your sleeve so how can this be? For those who have kids in daycare your day is suddenly MUCH shorter – you HAVE to be there on the bell to pick them up and 3pm is way earlier than the luxury of 5.30pm or 6pm or just picking them up whenever you were ready to!

The school day of six hours is super short, then add in doing tuckshop, uniform shop or class reading, your ACTUAL job, household errands & chores and getting organised for library day, sports day, news day, combined with class birthday parties and extra-curricular activities and it leaves about 3 seconds spare in your day!

We try really hard to be organised when we can as this does help. And when you get a note home from school, return it straight away before it goes missing in the endless pile of papers. Read the school newsletter or if your class has a closed Facebook group, join it as these are the best ways to keep across the HEAP of stuff that happens at school.

 

So buckle up mums, you’re in for a ride but it’s a really rewarding one. Their growth, both intellectually and emotionally, in kindergarten is out of this world and they become much more independent. Take some time to admire it, because this year will fly by faster than you can imagine. Good luck!

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